Aging can be scary, especially to women. All women want to look beautiful and young. But today, being young is something that people worship and signs of aging are something to be ashamed of. Women are obsessed with focusing on their wrinkles, disguising grey hair, hiding drooping necks or camouflaging menopausal tummies. Society sets somewhat of a “shelf life” for women and the clock is always ticking. So it’s natural for us to reject the idea of getting older. There is still a massive double standard on how men and women age. I think it’s time to change that. According to a 2019 study, most women begin to feel invisible by the time they are 51. But I believe, change is on the way. I want to talk about the bright side of being a mature woman. It may surprise some of you, but a lot of men are actually attracted to older women for different reasons. Let’s shed some light on this mystery and help you understand what men find so alluring in older women.
Older Women are Confident and Independent
While younger women are still seeking attention and approval from the public, an older woman is comfortable in her own skin. She doesn’t need to prove herself to anyone and she is not looking for approval. She feels comfortable in her world. Her confidence and the way she carries herself is just magnetic. Older women enjoy men’s attention while also focusing on other important things.
We are Emotionally Mature
Older women have more life experience and we have been through a lot more in our lives. We know how to not overreact and how to control our emotions and behavior. But this does not mean we are boring and don’t know what fun means. In most cases we are just as playful and childish inside as younger chicitas.
We Know More about Life
Older women have more experience in life, dating, and relationships, in general, which allows the man to learn so many new things from her. We offer our perspective on several issues and our vast life experience helps a man look at life more realistically and leads him to mature at higher levels. We have an ability to see a man in a way that he cannot see himself. We show him what kind of a man he is and motivates him to achieve bigger goals.
We are BETTER in BED 🔥🔥🔥
A man who’s had experience dating and having sex with older women is likely to remember it as some of the best sex of his life. After all, once you’ve learned how to have great sex from a cougar, you’ll be hard-pressed to find a better tutor, mate, or lover. 💥
The cougar age alone indicates many more years of experience, possibly with multiple partners. We have had lots of practice. This provides us with YEARS of expertise. We know what we want and we know what men want. If the girl doesn’t know what she wants, it’s hard for the man to figure it out. Cougars know exactly what they want and which buttons the guy needs to press. 👇 Through our experience we also know what turns men on. We realize the importance of sex in a relationship. 👐
We have No Baby on the Brain
We don’t have any delusions that we are going to hook this man into marriage and/or start a family. This takes the pressure off a man who just wants to have fun without obligations. We’ve already done all that and our children are mostly grown up. The LAST thing we want to do is go back into a marriage, when we just got our get out of jail free card! This stress relief is a major reason sex is great with an older woman who isn’t as needy or demanding. AMEN! 🙏🚫👶
We aren’t Afraid to Communicate
The younger man will know exactly where he stands with us. We won’t play mind games with men by not answering our phone or counting days til we return a text. We will approach a man in a bar and not wait for him to make the first move. We will indicate what we want from the relationship. We will openly share our sexual needs and desires. We aren’t worried about losing the guy if we express ourselves.
We are Financially Stable
There’s no secret here, guys want financial security no matter how old they are. Most older women have a well-established career, have money in a retirement fund, and have a strong sense of financial responsibility when paying their bills. We aren’t looking for at them as a source of BANK. 💰
We, as older babes, deserve not to be written off for these phenomenal reasons!!! Who you are matters so much more than how old you are. Celebrate the confidence and wisdom you’ve acquired. Embrace your growth. BUT, if there are certain physical changes that shake your confidence, don’t allow you to enjoy certain activities or exercise, or take pleasure in intimate acts, by all means, empower yourself to become your best you. 🌟🌟🌟
Stay EXTRA!!!
